How to Get - Find a girlfriend on facebook

The Challenges Of Finding The Right Girlfriend


A good number of chics reading this article are probably wondering why any self-respecting Man would want to find a girlfriend on Facebook instead of doing things the old-fashioned way. If you are one of them, you are probably disgusted by the idea of a man hiding behind a computer screen and “stalking” and “molesting” innocent girls in the process of getting his princess.

Well, for one, we are no longer in the age of innocence; the days when a 16-year old Sophia Western in Henry Fielding’s Tom Jones would blush and sigh at the thought of her suitor are long gone. It is no longer possible for you to go a-courting your cousin, Miss Rivers, who was born and bred a lady, and who at the age of 22 looks handsomer than she did at 14.


The kind of girl that the modern guy is walking up against is bad news. She is the type who will yearn for the guy who is outgoing (read arrogant,) confident-of-himself (read narcissistic,) and funny (a guy with coarse jokes,) and then start crying “all men are beasts,” after she has been hurt.

This article is for the guy who is looking for a real woman, but finds that many of the women in her neighborhood are a total waste of time.









Step 1: Get As Many Facebook Friends As Possible


During the god old days, women were taught to be good wives. A man would pick ten girls and from there pick the “perfect wife.” Today, you’ll be lucky if you can pick a wife material from among 100 women.

Finding a wife material on Facebook can be much harder because you will be dealing with a person that you’ve never seen before.

This means that you have to widen your pool so that you can increase your chances of landing on the perfect fish. At this stage, you should add both men and women to your friends list, because you may end up adding a male friend who has the perfect 23 year old cousin designed for you.

Step 2: Check out their profiles


The second step of checking out their profile is a great opportunity to weed out those who will not fit; too old, too young, and so on. Here, you get to check out the status updates of the girls that you have not ruled out. From her comments and posts, you can tell a lot about her values on things such as sex, men, marriage, alcohol, and many others. Make sure that you only pick the girls whose values you agree with.

Step 3: Comment on Her Posts


Getting a girlfriend on Facebook requires you to be proactive. You need to start commenting on posts of the girls that you have cherry-picked. You shouldn’t seem like a stalker though. Make useful comments that will make her notice you.

You need to make her feel good when you are commenting on her posts. For example, if she has used a fake name such as “Black Beauty,” make sure that you use the name when commenting on her post. Facebook will notify her that you have mentioned her in your comment and you can be sure she will notice you.






Step 4: Wait for the girl to come


Most single-and-searching girls will definitely notice you, even though they may not be doing it consciously. You’ve moved miles to reach this point and it is time to let her come close. At this point she may start checking out your profile to see who you are. Unfortunately, Facebook has banned every application that would have allowed you to know whether she checks out your profile. However, if you notice that she has started making comments on your updates, you can now rest assured that she has officially noticed you.

Step 5: Establish private contact – A new phase


This is the most difficult phase when it comes to getting a girlfriend on Facebook. Without this step, all you’ll be will just be a guy we have some things in common. On the other hand, if you don’t handle this stage well, you are likely to come out as a stalker. To establish private contact, you need to show her (without telling her, that you are interested in knowing her more.) You can do this by starting a conversation that will go like this:

(You) @Black Beauty, Why do you love the Yankees so much?
(Her) I don’t know. I guess it’s because my dad loved the team and I am daddy’s girl. What about you?
(You) @Black Beauty; that’s nice. My reason is kinda embarrassing – check your inbox.

Make sure that you have a great story to tell her; a story that will warrant her reply.




Step 6: Establish Physical Contact


Now that you have had the permission to enter her private space, you can now go ahead and ask her whether the two of you can meet. Let this process hatch naturally. All you need to do is to provide the necessary warmth, but you should not crack the egg open.

Sticky Points


If you want to find a girlfriend on Facebook, you need to be aware that you stand a chance of being deceived on some issues. You therefore need to pay greater attention to these areas and not take things at face value:

a. Education and schools attended
b. Physical appearance (people sometimes put fake photos.)
c. Who I am; When people describe themselves, they rarely say who they are; instead, they talk about whom they would like to be.
d. Religion – Your faith is really important here, because if you are born-again and the girl is a bible-bashing atheist, you definitely have no future together. And never think that you will change her.

So, what are you going to do?

P.S. Please leave a comment on what you think about these tips.

How To Love Yourself In 17 Ways

 

I have compiled a list on “how to love yourself” for readers who are facing difficulty knowing what to do in embracing themselves. When I first began to be aware that I need to love myself first prior to developing any meaningful relationships with others, I realized that I did not know where to start.

This was a surprise to me then as I would have thought I’d be an expert on love and relationships by then. After all, as I recalled, in my younger days, I have spent much time looking for the best spouse or romantic partner. But I soon realized that my search was meant to fill the void or emptiness I had inside. Finding a good relationship with myself seemed to be an even harder task! However, as things turned out, I found myself failing miserably in my early relationships because I had insufficient or little self love.

I have found that self-esteem and self-love are issues that are often related together. If you suffer from low self esteem, it is possible that the the root cause is a case of insufficient self-love. And so, you have found it difficult to find that little bit of love for yourself. Loving yourself feels unnatural for a start because your mind has been ingrained with self sabotaging thoughts for the longest time.

However, nothing is going to happen if you do not make a conscious decision. And that includes attracting abundance. When you don’t love yourself, you are basically telling the Universe that you are unworthy or undeserving of any love or positive outcomes that have the same vibrational match as love.

Learning to love yourself starts with making a conscious decision, an intention to become happy and lead a fulfilled life. When you do not love yourself and suffer from low self esteem, it is almost impossible to ever reach the potential that you suspect you have.

“Love yourself first and everything falls into line.”
Lucille Ball quotes (American radio and motion-picture actress and comedy star, 1911-1989)

When you make a decision to love yourself, you are really saying that you want to come alive. You accept that you are responsible for the outcomes that you experience in your life and would like yourself to shine from living a fulfilling life.
So if you’ve decided on loving yourself but are as equally stumped on how to love yourself, as I was back then, here are 17 ways which I believe can be helpful:

1. Fall in love with yourself. Think about what makes you You. Just like a flower that needs watering to grow, learn to nurture yourself in every way. Love yourself for all the good that you see and accept your flaws and the fact that you are imperfect. This does not mean that you do not learn to change from your shortcomings; instead, you are being gentle and kind to yourself despite all your “flaws”. Look in the mirror and fall in love with the reflection that is You.

“To love oneself is the beginning of a life-long romance.”
Oscar Wilde quotes (Irish Poet, Novelist, Dramatist and Critic, 1854-1900)

2. Eliminate Self Criticism. Do you often berate yourself over the tiniest thing? Is there a little voice inside your head that often tells you that you are no good because you are stupid or make mistakes. If you find that you criticize yourself often, make an effort to stop the self criticism.

“I CAN is 100 times more important than IQ.” — unknown

3. Be Kind And Positive. When you start to think kindly and positively about yourself, the love you have for yourself just grows. Make it a habit to praise yourself everyday, while in the front of the mirror. Because of such thoughts, you naturally undertake empowering actions that support your development.

4. Acknowledge Your Effort. It is not always about winning or coming up tops in everything that you do. Many times, it is the effort that counts! Acknowledge that you have done your best, even if you have failed to produce tangible results.

5. Let Go Of Worry. Loving yourself requires you to let go of your worry. It is a horrible way to live a life filled with constant worrying. I can attest to that! Worry does not help in any way. It cannot, on its own, make things happen. Only wise actions can! So instead of worrying, spend time thinking about what you can do to help in the situation. If the situation is beyond your control, then make a request to the Universe/God about what you want. Next, surrender your outcome.

“There is only one way to happiness and that is to cease worrying about things which are beyond the power of our will.” — Epictetus quotes (Greek philosopher associated with the Stoics, AD 55-c.135)

6. Trust Yourself. Have confidence in your abilities. Know that you have the ability to make important changes for yourself, for as long as you put your heart to it. You can also support yourself by visualizing desired outcomes.

“Trust yourself. You know more than you think you do.”
Benjamin Spock quotes (American Pediatrician and Author, 1903-1998)

7. Forgive Yourself. If you have made mistakes in the past that had caused you to feel less worthy, then you need to forgive yourself. All of us make mistakes; so there really is no need to beat yourself up over them. Also, if you have been carrying around a baggage of emotional hurt because of a childhood trauma, learn to forgive yourself.

“To forgive is to set a prisoner free and discover that the prisoner was you.”
Lewis B. Smedes quotes

8. Be Truthful To Yourself. Loving yourself requires you to be truthful about your own feelings. If you are happy, acknowledge the joy. If you are sad, acknowledge the sorrow. When you are truthful about your feelings, you do not try to lie to yourself or seek to bury your negative emotions. Instead, acknowledging what you feel provides a good guide to what your thoughts are. And as we all know, thoughts can be changed, so that healing and self growth can take place.

9. Grow Spiritually. When you spend time growing spiritually, loving yourself becomes automatic. You become more peaceful, connected, kind, loving and compassionate. You nurture a mind that grows more beautiful by the day. You naturally love yourself in the process.

10. Make Positive Affirmations Everyday. Reframe your mind with positive affirmations. For instance, say this to yourself “I love and accept myself completely and unconditionally.” Read your affirmations out loud several times a day.

11. Express Gratitude. Express gratitude for the person that you are. For instance, cultivate an appreciation for your strengths and gifts. Also, feel a sense of gratitude that you are alive and well, and fully capable of making a difference in your life.

12. Nurture Your Dreams. Why deny yourself your dreams? When you nurture your dreams, you would love the life that you are leading. Every moment that you live is a joy because you are expressing yourself fully.

Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn’t do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover. —Mark Twain

13. Boost Your Self Confidence. Make a deliberate attempt to look for opportunities that can help improve your confidence. For instance, if you are particularly good at doing something, set aside more time to indulge and improve your skills on it. Knowing that you have particular gifts can boost your self esteem.

14. Relax. Give yourself space to take breaks every now and then. If you spend your time working, without paying attention to your health, it also means that you do not love yourself well enough to take care of your own body. Fill your time with silence, soothing music and visions of beauty; anything that nourishes your Soul.

15. Have Fun. Inject some fun into your life. Life is meant to be an enjoyable. Don’t take life or yourself too seriously. If you can think of life in this manner, you automatically relax and quit worrying over things that do not matter.

16. Look After Your Body. It is important that you strengthen yourself with proper nutrition and regular exercise. Your body is a temple and you should treat it with respect, love and care. It has been found that the lack of self love is often the root causes of conditions like eating disorders, obesity or even terminal diseases.

“Take care of your body. It’s the only place you have to live.”
Jim Rohn quotes (American Speaker and Author. He is famous for motivational audio programs for Business and Life. )

17. Learn To See Beauty. When you learn to see beauty in every thing, you will also see beauty in yourself. Hence, stop to smell the flowers. Notice everything. Feel everything. The pink blush of the flowers in your garden, the greenness of the plains, the whisper of the gentle wind, or the myriad hues of an evening sky.

 
Here is a good affirmation to read and reflect on…..

“I am Me. In all the world, there is no one else exactly like me. Everything that comes out of me is authentically mine, because I alone chose it — I own everything about me: my body, my feelings, my mouth, my voice, all my actions, whether they be to others or myself. I own my fantasies, my dreams, my hopes, my fears. I own my triumphs and successes, all my failures and mistakes.
Because I own all of me, I can become intimately acquainted with me. By so doing, I can love me and be friendly with all my parts. I know there are aspects about myself that puzzle me, and other aspects that I do not know — but as long as I am friendly and loving to myself, I can courageously and hopefully look for solutions to the puzzles and ways to find out more about me.
However I look and sound, whatever I say and do, and whatever I think and feel at a given moment in time is authentically me. If later some parts of how I looked, sounded, thought, and felt turn out to be unfitting, I can discard that which is unfitting, keep the rest, and invent something new for that which I discarded. I can see, hear, feel, think, say, and do. I have the tools to survive, to be close to others, to be productive, and to make sense and order out of the world of people and things outside of me.

I own me, and therefore, I can engineer me. I am me, and I am Okay.”
Denis2005 Virginia Satir quotes (American Psychologist and Educator, 1916-1988)

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Kissing Songs

Kissing is an extremely heavenly and beautiful expression. Kisses truly convey what one desires from their partner for that moment as well as for the lifetime.
Love and music go very well together, romantically.
Here's a list of some of the most popular kissing songs:
* A Kiss To Build A Dream On – This Louis Armstrong will surely leave the two of you wanting for more and more. It beautifully conveys the emotions that splurge after you kiss someone special.
* First Kiss – This Louise song is in fact a wedding song, but a very nice first kiss song for any romantic kiss escapade :)
* Give Him A Big Kiss – The Shangi Las
* I’m Kissing You – This song belongs to one of the most romantic movies of all time, Romeo and Juliet.
* Kiss – Marilyn Monroe
* Kiss – Prince
* Kisses Sweeter Than Wine – Jimmie Rogers
* Kissing A Fool – George Michael
* Kissing You – Faith Evans
* Kiss Me In The Rain – Beautiful Barbara Streisand kiss song
* Love and Kisses - Kissing song by Dannii Mongue
* Our First Kiss – Jonathan Edwards
* Save Your Kisses For Me - Natasha Thomas
* Say It With A Kiss – Billie Holiday
* Sealed With A Kiss - Brian Hyland
* Stealing Kisses – Faith Hill
* Take Your Tongue Out Of My Month, I’m Kissing You Goodbye – This Ray Stevens song is one of the most famous kissing songs.
* This Kiss - Faith Hill
* True Love's Kiss - Amy Adams

A sweet moonlight kiss, romantic kissing with the right settings ...

Kissing Games

15 Best Kissing Games of All Time

If you want to liven up your party or have an intimate game with your loved one, kissing games are the perfect way to do it.

These games could spark up untapped feelings, rekindle a long-term relationship, or even give you a chance to smooch that dream guy/girl of yours.

Below, you will find a list of the top 15 kissing games of all time.

Kissing Game 1 - 7 Minutes in Heaven

This is one of the oldest kissing games in the world. In this game, a boy and girl are asked to enter a closet and stay in there for seven minutes. During the duration of their stay inside the closet, they have to kiss or do anything intimate. After they come out, the people outside will decide if they did it or not. If not, they will have to face a consequence.

Kissing Game 2 – The Kiss Mark

For this game, you will be needing a red lipstick and a timer. Pairs will have to apply lipstick on their lips then they will be asked to kiss each other on exposed body parts like face, neck, arms, legs, and so on for a few minutes. When the timer buzzes, the couple will stop kissing. The couple with the most kiss marks on each other wins the game.

Kissing Game 3 – Apple Kissing Game

Have the group sit on a circle with boys and girls on alternating positions. Bite into the apple so that it would stick into your mouth and the person sitting beside you would take it from you by biting into it as well. Do rounds of this game until the apple falls off. If the apple falls off, everyone should take a bite from it. The game gets more exciting when the apple becomes smaller and smaller. You can also use other fruits for this game such as pears.

Kissing Game 4 - Body Shots

For a more exciting kind of kissing game, you can do the body shots. For this game, you will need whipped cream, cherries, chocolate syrup, caramel sauce. A girl or a guy would put whipped cream or any other topping on the part of her or his body that she or he wants to be kissed. The opposite gender would then have to lick off the topping.

Kissing Game 5 – Spin the Bottle

Ah, the classic game of spin the bottle. In this game, your group sits in circle. Whoever spins the bottle gets to kiss the person whom the bottle points to when the spinning stops.

Kissing Game 6 - Card Kisses

Card kisses is similar to the apple kissing game, only this is more challenging as it involves sucking the card surface onto your mouth in such a way that it wouldn't fall all. You will then have to pass the card around. This means that the sitting arrangement around the circle would also need to be boy-girl-boy-girl. The game gets more thrilling when the card falls off and the two people gets to kiss each other accidentally.

Kissing Game 7 - Chocolate Kissing Game

A game to satisfy intimacy and sweet tooth cravings. Take a bottle of chocolate syrup or hot fudge. Pour some into your partner on his/her body parts that you would want to kiss. It would be best to draw an object on her skin so that licking the chocolate would be much more fun.

Kissing Game 8 – Kissing Tag

This is just like the classic game of tag. The only difference is that if the it catches you, he/she will have to plant a kiss on your cheek or lips as a "punishment." That person becomes the next it and will now chase after the others.

Kissing Game 9 – No Blinking Game

This game only requires one couple to play. Here, you will have to kiss your partner with your eyes wide open. Do this until one of you blinks. The person who does not blink wins the game.

Kissing Game 10 – Guess who

Similar but more intimate than the Heads Up-7up game. To play this game, you would need an even number of boys and girls to stand away from each other. The girls are blindfolded. Each guy would pick a girl and plant a kiss on her cheek. After all the guys have planted their kisses, the girls take down their blindfold and take a guess who kissed them. If the girl makes a correct guess, that guy loses. The last guy left wins the game.

Kissing Game 11 – Hide and Kiss

This kissing game is similar to the classic hide and seek game. But the only difference is that if the it finds a person from the opposite sex's team, the two will have to go to the home base and kiss for a few seconds.

Kissing Game 12 – Hot and Spicy Kissing Game

Couples put hot sauce on each other's tongues and make out for as long as they can. The couple who is able to resist the spiciness of the hot sauce the longest wins the game.

Kissing Game 13 – Longest Kissing

Just like Kissing Game # 12, this is also about kissing for the longest time. But the difference is that the couple will be asked to be in awkward positions so that it would be a challenge to make out for a long time.

Kissing Game 14 – Kissing Drawlots

To play this game, you must have an equal number of guys and girls. Each person will write down on a piece of paper which body part each would want to be kissed. After that, all the folded papers would be gathered in a hat. Each one would then pick a paper. If the person guesses who wrote in that paper, he/she can kiss the person in that particular body part where he/she would want to be kissed.

Kissing Game 15 - Kiss or Dare

This one is like the old Truth or Dare game. But there is a twist. Each person in the group takes turn in daring a person. If the person accomplishes the dare, another person would take his/her turn in daring an opposite sex. But if the person was not able to do the dare for some reason, he/she must kiss the person who dare him/her.

All these games are all about good-natured fun. Those that are more intimate are perfect for couples to reignite romance in their relationships.

Kissing is like drinking salted water. You drink, and your thirst increases. ~ Chinese Proverb

A kiss seals two souls for a moment in time. ~ Levende Waters

Any man who can drive safely while kissing a pretty girl is simply not giving the kiss the attention it deserves. ~ Albert Einstein

Kissing Facts

Kissing facts that are surprising, or not so surprising. Kiss facts for fun:
Kissing helps reduce tooth decay. Kissing increases the mouth's production of saliva, and saliva helps clean the mouth thus aides prevention of tooth decay.
In some places kissing is a crime - it's illegal in Indiana for a moustached man to "habitually kiss human beings", in Hartford, Connecticut it's illegal for a husband to kiss his wife on Sunday, and in Cedar Rapids, Iowa, it's a crime to kiss a stranger.
You use only two muscles on your face when you give a peck kiss but you use all of your facial muscles and burn more calories during a passionate kiss.
Eskimos, Polynesians and Malaysians rub noses instead of kissing.
The average person spends two weeks of their life kissing.
You burn 26 calories in a one minute of kissing.
The scientific name for kissing is philematology.
A standard greeting in Europe is a kiss on both cheeks.
First movie kiss - John C Rice kissed May Irwin in the film called "The Kiss" (1896).
Luck o' the Irish: According to legend, any person who kisses the Blarney Stoney will be endowed with the gift of eloquence and persuasive flattery.
Longest movie kiss - 3 minutes and 5 seconds between Jane Wyman and Regis Tommey in, "You're in the Army Now" (1941).
Fifty percent experience the excitement of the first kiss at 13 or 14 years of age.
Scientific studies have proven that kissing can help reduce skin rashes and blemishes.
Our brains have special neurons that help us locate each others lips in the dark.
Husbands who kiss their wives before leaving home in the morning have been documented to live five years than those who do not.


Is a kiss with red lips more passionate?
Well, the kiss is from a more feminine mouth ...

Kiss Types

This is a long list of various kiss types. If you find some that catch your imagination, feel free to try them :-)

Butterfly Kiss - With your faces less than a breath away, open and close your eyelids against your partners. The fluttering sensation may just match the one in your heart.

Cheek Kiss - A friendly, "I really like you" kiss. Often the preferred kissing method of a first date. With your hands on your partner's shoulders, gently brush your lips across her cheek.

Downward Kiss - Starting at the ear, kiss down along your partner’s jaw to their neck or collarbone.

Earlobe Kiss - Gently sip and suck the earlobe. Avoid louder sucking noises as ears are sensitized noise detectors.

Eskimo Kiss - With your faces less than a breath apart, gently rub your noses together.

Eye Kiss - Hold your partner's head with both hands and slowly move their head in the direction you wish your kiss to go... then slowly kiss up towards your partner's eyes and give them a tender kiss on top of their closed eyes.

Eyelid Kiss - While your partner is resting/sleeping with eyes closed, very very gently kiss the spot right below their browbone. A very intimate kiss.

Finger Kiss - While laying together gently suck on their fingers. This can be very seductive and pleasurable.

Fish Kiss - Suck your cheeks in so that both of you look like fish and try to kiss each other before you burst out laughing.

Foot Kiss - An erotic and romantic gesture. It may tickle, but relax and enjoy it! To give a toe kiss by gently suck the toes and then lightly kissing the foot. It helps to gently massage the base of the foot while performing the kiss.

Forehead Kiss - The "motherly" kiss or "just friends" kiss. The forehead kiss can be a comforting kiss to anyone. Simply brush your lips lightly across the crown of their head.

Freeze Kiss (or Melt Kiss) - Experiment with this fun kiss. Put a small piece of ice in your mouth, then open mouth and kiss your partner, passing them the ice with your tongue. It's an erotic and sensual french kiss with a twist of cold.

French Kiss - The kiss involving the tongue. Some call this the "Soul Kiss" because the life and soul are thought to pass through the mouth's breath in the exchange across tongues. Open your mouths and touch tongues lightly and enjoy the feeling of your tongues moving against each other.

From Behind Kiss - Hold your date from behind and when they turn their head, move yours around to meet them and kiss.

Fruity Kiss - Take a small piece of fruit and place between your lips (juicy fruits such as grapes, strawberries, small pieces of pineapple or mango are ideal). Kiss your partner and nibble one half of the piece of fruit while they nibble the other until it breaks in half, allowing the juice to run into your mouths.

Hand Kiss - Gently raise her hand to your lips. Lightly brush your lips across the top of her hand. Historically this kiss was performed with a bow, which showed deference to a lady.

Hickey Kiss - The object is not to draw blood, but to gently leave a mark that will prove your interlude was not a dream. This is often included in erotic foreplay.

Hostage Kiss - Cover your lips with tape and get your love's attention. When they come near, make noises like you're trying to tell them something and motion as if you can't get the tape off. Once they remove the tape from you to hear what you're trying to say tell them: "I've been saving my lips all day just for you!" Then kiss your love passionately!

Hot and Cold Kiss - Lick your partner's lips so that they're warm, and then gently blow on them. The sudden cold blast makes for a sensual explosion, and they will often try it on you next, as well as get very passionate.

Ice Kiss - While French kissing, pass a small piece of ice between your mouths.

Mistletoe Kiss - Surprise your lover by capturing them with a gentle holiday kiss under the mistletoe. This is also a good method for shyer individuals to steal a kiss from a potential lover.

Mystery Kiss - Go to the local supermarket or candy shop and each pick out a bunch of flavors you like – for example toffee, grapes, strawberries, etc. (jelly bellies work well). Don't show each other what you bought. Take turns closing your eyes while your partner eats a bite and then gives you a French kiss. See if you can guess the flavor!

Letter Kiss - Send your lover a kiss in a love letter by writing the letter x several times in a row at the bottom of a letter such as XXXXX.

Lick Kiss - Just before kissing, gently run your tongue along you partners lip whether it be the top or bottom one depending on the position of your lips. Very sensual.

Lip Sucking Kiss - When kissing gently suck on their lower lip. This can be very exciting.

Neck Nibble Kiss - Gently nibble up and down your partners neck. End with a gentle kiss on the lips.

Nip Kiss - This kiss can create a very erotic sensation. While kissing your partner, ever so gently nibble on their lips. You must be very careful not to bite to hard or hurt your partner. When done correctly, this kiss ignites wonderful sensations.

No Lips Kiss - Lean in close, open your mouths slightly and touch tongues without touching lips.

Reverse Lips Kiss - It involves standing above your lover and kissing them from over their head. This way, each kisser can take the hyper-sensitive bottom lip of thier lover in their mouths, and GENTLY draw blood to the surface of the lip by nibbling and sucking. A very sensuous, connecting kiss.

Searching The Cavern - Use the lips and tongue to gently tickle and kiss your lover's navel. Vary speeds and stroke to change sensation. Invigorating and intoxicating.

Shocking Kiss - Shuffle around the carpet until you build up an electric charge then lean in close until only your lips meet and give off a spark.

Shoulder Kiss - Simply come from behind, embrace her, and kiss the top of her shoulder. This is a sensual, loving kiss.

Sip Kiss - Take a small sip of your favorite drink. Leaving a little bit of it on your lips, kiss your partner. It is a unique way to create a sensual feeling and your partner will enjoy it.

Slow Motion Kiss - Kiss your date at one-half or one-quarter speed.

Sniff Kiss - Popular in Asian nations where public kissing is frowned upon, the sniff kiss doesn't involve lips at all. Lean into your date and put your nose near their cheek, ear, or neck. Inhale their scent deeply.

Sucking Kiss - When kissing with an open mouth, gently suck on your partner's lower lip. Pull away slightly while kissing for that little extra touch, but not too hard.

Talking Kiss - Whisper sweet nothings into your partner's mouth. If caught in the act, simply say as Chico Marx, "I wasn't kissing her. I was whispering into her mouth."

Teaser Kiss - Starting on the forehead, a sweet short kiss on lips, then move up the arms up to her hand, kiss her hand, then come back up her arm, to her face and then lightly kiss her lips till she wants a passionate kiss.

The Buzzing Kiss - Gently place your lips against your lover's neck , behind their ear. Now, send a shudder through their skin by gently growling and humming, vibrating your lips and cheeks as you do so. Move up and down the neck, over the bones of the face and lips. Stimulating and erotic when done correctly.

The Whipped Cream Kiss - Dip your finger into some cool whip or whipped cream of your choice. Lick it off slowly, then embrace your partner and kiss them deeply letting their tongue slip over yours for a wonderfully sweet kiss. It's very seductive and passionate.

Tickle Kiss - Give your partner a normal kiss and then start tickling their ribs, stomach, or underarms. See how long you can continue while you are both laughing.

Tiger Kiss - Quietly sneak up behind your partner making sure they do not know what you are going to do. Out of the blue, grab them and gently bite their neck. Make sure to get a few good growls in too. This will surely surprise them.

Trickle Kiss - Take a sip of a favourite drink and trickle it slowly into partner's mouth while kissing.

Tongue Sucking - A variation of the French kiss. During an open-mouth kiss gently suck on your partner's tongue (not too hard because it may hurt). Very sexy :-)

Quickie Kiss - When you're in a rush. Often the nose gets it rather than the lips.

Upside-Down Kiss - Have your partner lie on their back or sit in a chair and lean their head back. Lean over and give them a kiss with your heads pointed the opposite direction.

Vacuum Kiss - While kissing open-mouthed, slightly suck in as if you were sucking the air from your partners mouth. This is a playful kiss.

Wake Up Kiss - Before your partner awakes lean over and kiss their cheek and move over giving soft kisses until you reach their lips. Definitely a more than pleasant way to wake up!

Virtual Kiss - For Internet lovers. Send an e-card or a kiss via email with this symbol: :-*

Pickup Lines

Reel Your Date In With a Line A good opening line may win you a date while a bad one will just cause your target to look at you in disdain or worse, start laughing hysterically. If you see a stranger in a bar and you want to get to know them, you've got to approach them and say something witty that will make them like you and leave an indelible impression.

In only a few seconds, you will decide your fate – whether or not you've met the love of your life, gotten a date, or end up going home alone. According to psychologists, people make up their mind about other people within seconds. This is why your opening line has got to make a good impression.

Confidence
Confidence is key. Even if you're delivering a cheesy line, if you accompany it with a wink or a self-deprecating look, you'll come off as funny or sexy, not corny. You'll want to make sure that you look cool when you approach your target. If you’re nervous and your palms are sweaty, don't let them see it. People can sense whether you're confident or not. You are most likely to succeed if you have confidence in yourself and your opening line.

Most people think that good-looking men and women who are single never approach other people because they are accosted all the time. In some cases this might be true. But whatever we look like, most of us like talking to new people. A lot of us also lack the confidence or verbal skills to suddenly start chatting to people that we don’t know.

Entertain
Try to be entertaining. A good sense of humor is always appreciated. Humor always breaks up the ice. But don’t go all out. You'll find that a simple approach sometimes works better than all those fancy bells and whistles. Delivery is key. Some tried and tested opening lines actually work.

Don't stress out
This will undermine your confidence and impede your delivery. Being stressed out can also cause you to clam up. While drinking a lot of alcohol can cause you to loosen up and gain some confidence, it is not good to chat someone up when you've had a lot to drink.

Don't be a jerk
An offensive line will never work. But surprisingly, a simple request to buy someone a drink will elicit a response in about half the people that you meet. Many people prefer a simple and straightforward approach. Just come up to them confidently and state your best opening line. If you feel up to it, use some humor or crack a joke. Different lines will work with different people. You will either luck out or strike out.

Ladies should definitely not leave it up to the men to approach them. If you see someone you like, smile at them and let them catch you looking at them. If they don’t approach you but you feel like they're interested, take the initiative and go up to them. Then hit them with your best opening line.
After all, you have nothing to lose.

Foolproof Tips for Finding a Date

In today's fast-paced lifestyle, meeting people can be a challenge. Finding a date can be even more difficult. If you haven't been lucky in the arena of dating, it is about time that you do something about it. Do not just sit down and let the world pass you by. Read on to these tips that will help snatch a date with the guy/girl of your dreams.

Go out

You can't expect to find a date while inside your home sulking the whole day. The best way for you to meet people is to go out. Even though it seems tempting for you to watch the entire season of your favorite show the entire afternoon, do yourself a favor and get off that couch. Attend parties, watch movies or concerts, participate in charitable causes, travel to nearby states, and so on. Just make sure that you move around a lot. The more you go out, the better chances for you to meet other people, which would also increase your chances for finding a date.

Surf the web

The Internet might just be the best thing that has ever happened to introverts who desire to go on a date. Online dating services have proliferated like mushrooms. In fact, these sites are not anymore used by the desperate ones. Even good-looking people with great personalities now use the Internet to find the person they want to go out with. This is good news for you because you no longer have to fear about meeting a loser or a pervert as long as you make use of dating services that are reputable and credible. See to it that you present yourself in the best light without seeming as if you paid an advertising agency to write your dating profile. Be funny, confident, and natural.

Look your best

People always talk about the importance of inner beauty. We all know that. But we cannot also undermine physical beauty, as this is the primary factor that attracts people. Don’t expect to find a date if you look shabby or if you look like you haven't taken a bath in years. You do not have to undergo a plastic surgery just to make yourself beautiful. It's enough that you look your best, you smell nice, and most important of all, you exude with confidence.

Be interesting and interested

While looks can attract people, it's a personality that would make them want to stick with you. Even if you are a Brad Pitt or Angelina Jolie look-a-like, if your personality will bore your date to death then you cannot expect to have more of these things coming for you. Being interesting is the key. Have a few funny anecdotes ready to tell at the right time. Be in the know on trends, movies, music, news, and any topic that is of popular interest. Go out of your comfort zone and travel. Traveling especially to exotic destinations will equip you with valuable insights that would inevitably make you a more interesting person. Of course, you cannot just focus on yourself at all times. When talking to people, be sure to ask open-ended questions and listen to the person when he/she is talking. You should not just be interesting, you should also be interested.

Finding a date may not always be easy but once you get the hang of things, you will realize that it is easier than you actually thought.

First Date

Notes on the First Date So you are up on your first date and you want it to be great. Here are several ideas to remember when you go out with someone special for the first time:

First impression – even if you've known the person for some time, making a good impression could also be hard since dating is another field and you wouldn't want to mess it up. Meeting with a blind date could be more difficult. A good tip is that you should plan the date with your partner. This will make you seem considerate, plus it will save you time on planning the date alone. With this, you can be sure that you will both enjoy your first date. Another thing, be sure that you will not get late. Picking her up or arriving late can ruin the mood even before the date starts. You can also achieve a good impression by surprising her with a small gift. You can find out her likes such as favorite flowers or chocolates. The gift does not need to be overstated; it will show her that you are thoughtful.

Location – what you have to offer to your date is judged by where you bring her. No amount of good looks can cover up a bad venue – it can even ruin her perception about you. If you've known each other for quite some time, think of the things that you both like doing. Laid-back and romantic girls would love a walk on the beach with white sand and watch the sun go down as the stars come-up while your conversation go on and on about each other. Another great idea would be a real restaurant with fine dining offers. Great places for outgoing girls are amusement parks, balloon rides or boating. But try to remember that your date would not want to end up sweaty and sticky because of the activities of the date. Artistic girls would love going to concerts, museums, movie premier nights, and art galleries.

Activities – this is not a lifesaver for boring dates but a channel into getting to know your partner more and giving you both the time to enjoy. If you've planned the date with her, then you've also planned the activities with her. This is a good opportunity for you to have fun while getting to know each other through observation and conversation. Do not engage in activities that would hinder your conversation with her. Choose the ones where you get to discuss things. Watching sports is a good idea for a date if you both love the sport since it will offer plenty of topics for discussion.

Setting the Mood – a relaxing mood is difficult to achieve but is a must. Carry on light conversations and give your date simple compliments. Do not ask too many questions at once and try to share things about yourself as well. Asking questions about your date would make her feel that you are interested in her but do not go overboard by asking very personal questions. Let it go if she does not feel like answering you. Avoid overstating or exaggerating facts about yourself or it could turn off your date or make her feel less compared to you. Remember to be yourself as your honesty would be greatly appreciated and would help your date feel at ease about being herself as well.

These tips would surely help you have a wonderful first date and secure a second date. Nevertheless, remember to consider that people vary and therefore not everything is applicable to everyone. As extravagance and luxury is a good way to please and impress, parsimony and honesty is also great to win the good impression of your date.

Dating Tips

How to make your dates successful Your crush has finally asked you out and you're going on a date. Or you have been dating a lot of people, but it just doesn't seem to be going anywhere. Dating can be tricky ground for a lot of people. That's why there are a plethora of dating tips out their to help you be more confident and to set your best foot forward.

Here are some of the best dating tips you should follow:

Always look your best. You'll want to present your best self to your date, so take the time to choose the clothes that suit you. Put on makeup and spray on that sweet-smelling perfume or splash on that manly aftershave. First impressions last and you'll want to make sure that you'll make a good one. If you look like a mess, your date will feel that you're not interested in them.

Showing up late is a turn-off. Your date has gone to the trouble to set a time. They'll have made reservations or bought tickets to see a movie that starts at a specific time. Give your date the courtesy of showing up on time.

Have fun! Find something about your date to enjoy. After all, you most probably wouldn't be out with someone if you didn't share a common interest, so you'll be sure to be doing something that you like. If you have fun, most likely your date will have fun too, and you'll end up going on a successful date.

Do look for a positive trait or characteristic in your date to compliment. Most people go to a lot of trouble to get ready for a date. They also spend a lot of time and effort into planning a date. You will boost their ego by complimenting their appearance. They will also be flattered that you appreciate all the effort it took to set up the date.

Show some interest in your date and be an interesting date. Keep the conversation rolling by asking questions and sharing stories. Listen to your date when they tell you what books they like to read, what kind of music they listen to, and what they like to do. Share quirky stories about yourself that show off your interests and personality. You'll be bound to get to know each other better and appreciate each other's interests.

Be honest. If you don't dig your date, tactfully decline when they ask you out on a second date. You won't be doing them or yourself any favors by stringing them along. You'll also be wasting time if you keep going out with a person whom you're not into.

Don’t cave in to peer pressure. Listen to your friends' advice, but don't let them dictate whom you should date. You should go out with the people whom you’re attracted to, not the people whom your friends think will suit you. At the end of the day, you are the one who will be in a relationship – not your friends.

Even if your date doesn't go as planned, stay positive. You might not want to date a certain person again, but you might want to stay friends with them. Even if the path to finding your true love is rocky, you'll be sure to get to know good people along the way.

Follow these dating tips and your dates are sure to improve.

What Women Expect From Men

It may be cliche but allow me to say it, men are from Mars and women are from Venus. And just the same, we are all different people with different views and opinions, thus we have different expectations. But what do women expect from men and what are the things that they usually want in a relationship?

1. Time – women want to feel important and once they are committed in a relationship, they don't stop planning their lives ahead with complete names for children or an ideal house. A guy should commit to spend time with their girl more than they do with their friends and vices. Just the same, the guy should give enough freedom for his girl to do things on her own or with her girl friends and family.

2. Honesty and openness – a woman is either afraid of being lied at or overly confident that she would often doubt her man. A man should make it a point to share things with his partner, to return her messages when she asks things, to answer her questions even if it's the "did I gain weight" question or the "is she prettier than me" question. Allow her to know what you are thinking. Women feel confident and proud of their men if they admit what's wrong and whatever it is that bothers them.

3. Feeling of security – a man does not need to build-up his muscles to make his girl feel safe. Security could mean being financially secure, emotionally secure, or a worry-free relationship. Be a grown-up and stand-up for her. Let her know that you can make decisions and stand by it. Most women like it when their guys lead the way and have ways to protect her. In married couples, the man always makes sure that the wife has something to put up in the table for a complete meal. Be there for her in the toughest and most difficult times even when she's the problem, try to bear with it.

4. Tender loving care – all girls always love being taken-cared and being treated special. Guys should check on their girls from time to time even if there is now reason. Visit her even when she's not sick and spend time doing things for her like cooking her favorite dish and fixing her things. Girls who grew-up without their fathers usually look for guys who are older than them. This is because they long for a father-figure, thus, they demand more care and attention.

5. Do unexpected things for her – girls expect too much from guys sometimes that they get disappointed plenty of times too. Doing things unexpectedly would light up her mood and make her feel loved. Kiss her for no reason or bring her to an expensive restaurant once in a while. Long-time couples sometimes feel too comfortable and ordinary, bringing the girl to a date and reliving the days of courtship is a sweet way to make her know that she’s still that special. Write a letter for her even if it's not your style just ones.

Women are truly different from men but when it comes down to it all, we all just want to be loved. Sometimes it's the smallest things and gestures that could bring great differences.

What Men Expect From Women

Women are often perplexed in their efforts to figure out what men really need to be happy and contented. At the end of the day, Eve's daughters simply shake their heads, shrug their shoulders, and tell themselves that men will always be a complex mystery.

This shouldn't always be the case, however. Since the root of all misunderstandings between the opposite sexes is probably the fact that each party has their own misconceptions about each other, then it's time to set the facts straight. Once and for all, let us examine what men really expect from women.

Men expect women to communicate their thoughts and feelings directly and honestly. Men don't like it when women make them second-guess their actions. They expect their partner to express herself truthfully, and to verbalize her thoughts and feelings to help him understand her better. They don't like playing emotional charades. If his lady has certain needs and wants that he must fulfill, a man wants to know it straight from her. However, men prefer a gentle, kind and loving way of communication. It will never do to be demanding, whining, and critical of him.

Men expect women to be strong, independent, and self-sufficient. Men are attracted to confident women. Although a loving relationship is defined by sharing your life with your partner, it is still healthy to maintain a separate identity and not lose your own self. A woman should maintain her own interests, activities, and set of friends. The last thing that she should be is a clingy partner, who cannot function on her own if separated from her man. However, there should still be a balance to this, because men also want to feel needed. Being too independent may make a man fear that his partner is no longer truly committed to him.

Men expect women to be faithful and devoted. Another common misconception is that men are more likely to commit infidelity in a relationship, so it often the women who are heard as saying that they wished their man would be more faithful and devoted. In reality, no man would want to be cheated and betrayed by his girl as well. When a man is in a relationship, he expects his partner to be committed and willing to make the relationship work out.

Men expect women to know how to treat them right. Treating them right means knowing how to make them feel good. Men have a need to be praised, appreciated, and supported in their opinions. Stroking his ego once in a while would do him good, as long as it’s done sincerely and not in a patronizing way.

No matter how they resent being baffled by the riddle that is men, towards the end, women still try their best to understand and live in harmony with them. After all, the situation is fairly mutual. Women also have their own set of behaviors that puzzle men to no end.

Signs Of Cheating

Why cheat? Is it for the thrills of being a part of something illicit? Or is it in reality a cry for help and attention? There are many reasons why a partner cheats but according to an online survey, a majority of the people (both men and women respondents) said they cheated because of relationship problems.

What are the signs that a partner is cheating?

Suspicious Behavior

A cheating partner will usually exhibit a strange or uncommon conduct. For instance, your spouse might have mood swings that you cannot attribute to anything specific, like their jobs or the problems in your family. He/she might suddenly get angry or defensive when talking about things that he/she considers too "personal" or "intrusive."
According to a recent survey, the majority of cheating instances take place at work. If your partner suddenly works longer hours, is always on business meetings, or calls home that he/she will be late because of sudden changes in the work schedule, then he/she might be cheating on you.

Lack of Intimacy

One of the things that make a spouse suspect that the other is having an affair is the lack of intimacy. Your partner’s sexual interest or behavior changes until it seems that he/she is becoming a different person and you start to wonder whether you know them at all. Sexual intercourse, physical contact, and expressions of love and commitment also tend to become less frequent.

Time and Money that is Unaccounted For

Money and time, which cannot be accounted for, are usually red flags of cheating. A cheating partner may spend too much time on errands that usually do not take them a long time to accomplish, like going to the salon, getting the car washed, or going to the gym. You may also find receipts for purchases that you never see or big credit card bills that your spouse cannot explain.

Positive Changes in Physical Appearance

If your partner suddenly takes special pains to look and dress better, it might be because he/she is trying to impress someone. That someone could be you or another person. Women usually start wearing new clothes or lingerie, which are sexier than what they normally wear. Men are also inclined to buy new clothes and take extra care when it comes to grooming. A cheating partner can spend too much time looking at the mirror to check his/her reflection that it becomes noticeable.

Strange Phone Calls and Messages

A spouse who has something to hide, like an affair, will usually have his/her phone with him/her at all times. You might notice that he/she spends a huge amount of time having whispered conversations. Calls are made to and received from names or numbers that you do not recognize. If your partner takes his/her phone everywhere but does not answer when you call or the phone is always turned off when he/she is out with friends, there is a big chance that your partner is cheating on you.

Unless you caught your partner in the act, these signs are all circumstantial. Listen to your intuition but give your spouse the chance to explain. After all, you could be wrong and that can jeopardize the trust that you have for each other.

Love Words

Love words to use when writing or texting your sweetheart. Express you love with true words of love ...

Do not be at a loss of words when that special moment arises. These love related words will help you:

Admire, Admiring , Adore , Adoring , Affection , Allure , Alluring , Amour , Angel , Angelic , Attracted, Attractive
Beautiful , Beauty , Beloved , Bliss , Blissful , Blossoms
Caress , Caressing , Cherish , Complete , Crave , Craving
Darling , Dear , Deep , Delicate , Delirious , Desire , Desiring , Devote, Devoted , Dream , Dreaming
Ecstatic , Elated , Elation , Embrace , Embracing , Emotion , Enchanting , Enjoy , Exciting , Exotic , Exquisite
Fantasize , Fantasy, Feel, Feelings , Flame, Flaming, Forever
Gentle, Giving , Gorgeous
Happy , Heart, Heartfelt , Holding , Honey , Hug
Idolize , Innocent
Joyful , Joyous
Kisses , Kissing
Lasting , Lavish , Long for , Love , Loveable , Lovely , Lover , Luscious
Magic , Magical , Memories
Passion , Passionate , Precious , Privileged
Rainbow , Rendezvous , Romantic, Rose
Seductive , Seeing , Sensual , Sensuality , Sensuous , Soft , Spark, Spicy , Stars , Steamy , Stroke , Stunning , Suave , Sugar , Sweet, Sweetie , Sweetheart , Sweetness
Tasting , Temptation , Tender, Touching , Treasure , True
Unblemished, Unique
Valentine , Velvet , Voyage , Vision
Wonderful , Worship
Yearning

Love Verses Bible Love Quotes

The Bible has many examples of love quotes on the power of love - from being able to love ourselves, to being able to love God and everyone else in our life.

Genesis 29:20
"So Jacob worked seven years to pay for Rachel. But his love for her was so strong that it seemed to him but a few days.

1 Corinthians 13:1-8 and 13
"If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. If I give all I possess to the poor and surrender my body to the flames, but have not love, I gain nothing."

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

Love never fails ... And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love."

Song of Solomon 8:7
"Many waters cannot quench love, neither can the floods drown it: if a man would give all the substance of his house for love, it would utterly be contemned."

Proverbs 8:17
"I love those who love me, and those who seek me, find me."

Proverbs 15:17
"A bowl of vegetables with someone you love is better than steak with someone you hate."

Proverbs 17:9
"Love prospers when a fault is forgiven, but dwelling on it separates close friends."

Song of Solomon 8:6
"Place me like a seal over your heart, like a seal on your arm; for love is as strong as death, its jealousy unyielding as the grave. It burns like blazing fire, like a mighty flame."

Ephesians 5:33
"Each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband."

1 Peter 4:8
"Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins."

1 John 4:8
"Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love."

1 John 4:18
"There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love."

1 Timothy 1:5
"The goal of his command is love, which comes from a pure heart and a good conscience and a sincere faith."

John 13:34-35
"A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another. By this all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another."

Best Love Songs

111 Best Love Songs Of All Time

 

1. I WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOU by Whitney Houston
2. LOVE ME TENDER by Elvis Presley
3. MY HEART WILL GO ON by Celine Dion
4. OPEN ARMS by Journey
5. MAYBE I'M AMAZED by Paul McCartney & Wings
6. UNCHAINED MELODY by Righteous Brothers
7. ENDLESS LOVE by Lionel Richie & Diana Ross
8. YOUR SONG by Elton John
9. I'LL BE THERE by Jackson 5

10. I DON'T WANNA MISS A THING by Aerosmith
11. DON'T STOP THE LOVE by 98 Degrees
12. HOW DEEP IS YOUR LOVE by Beegees
13. NOTHING COMPARES TO YOU by Sinead O'Connor
14. I HONESTLY LOVE YOU by Olivia Newton John
15. FLY ME TO THE MOON by Frank Sinatra
16. BREATHE by Faith Hill
17. SHE'S GOT A WAY by Billy Joel
18. IN YOUR EYES by Peter Gabriel
19. IF YOU LEAVE ME NOW by Chicago

20. I GOT YOU BABE by Sonny & Cher
21. YOU'RE THE ONE THAT I WANT by Olivia Newton-John/John Travolta
22. YOU DON’T BRING ME FLOWERS by Barbra Streisand
23. UNFORGETTABLE by Nat King Cole
24. WONDERFUL TONIGHT by Eric Clapton
25. YOU ARE SO BEAUTIFUL by Joe Cocker
26. BABE by Styke
27. YOU'RE IN MY HEART by Rod Stewart
28. LET'S GET IT ON by Marvin Gaye
29. ALWAYS ON MY MIND by Willie Nelson

30. BECAUSE YOU LOVED ME by Celine Dion
31. YOU ARE THE SUNSHINE OF MY LIFE by Stevie Wonder
32. WOMAN by John Lenon
33. EVERYTHING I DO, I DO IT FOR YOU by Bryan Adams
34. KEEP ON LOVING YOU by Reo Speedwagon
35. SUPERSTAR by Carpenters
36. YOU'RE MY FIRST, MY LAST, MY EVERYTHING by Barry White
37. DON'T SPEAK by No Doubt
38. CRAZY FOR YOU by Madonna
39. I'LL BE THERE FOR YOU by Bon Jovi

40. YOU'RE STILL THE ONE by Shania Twain
41. KISS by Beth
42. I'D DO ANYTHING FOR LOVE by Meatloaf
43. MORE THAN WORDS by Extreme
44. I'VE HAD THE TIME OF MY LIFE by Bill Medley/Jennifer Warnes
45. UNBREAK MY HEART by Toni Braxton
46. LET'S STAY TOGETHER by Al Green
47. I WOULD DIE FOR YOU by Prince
48. BY YOUR SIDE by Sade
49. I CAN'T MAKE YOU LOVE ME by Bonnie Raitt

50. ALWAYS by Atlantic Stars
51. THAT'S THE WAY LOVE GOES by Janet Jackson
52. LOVE BITES by Def Leppard
53. MANDY by Barry Manilow
54. FALLIN' by Alicia Keys
55. I'LL STAND BY YOU by Pretenders
56. THE FIRST TIME EVER I SAW YOUR FACE by Roberta Flack
57. I WANT TO KNOW WHAT LOVE IS by Foriegner
58. BEST OF MY LOVE by Emotions
59. FAITHFULLY by Journey

60. THREE TIMES A LADY by Commodores
61. ALONE by Heart
62. TO BE WITH YOU by Mr.Big
63. HOW DO I LIVE by Lee Ann Rimes
64. I MELT WITH YOU by Modern English
65. NOBODY WANTS TO BE LONELY by Ricky Martin
66. IRIS by Goo Goo Dolls
67. ETERNAL FLAME by Bangles
68. MORE THAN A FEELING by Boston
69. NEVER TEAR US APART by INXS

70. I THINK I LOVE YOU by David Cassidy
71. WHOLE LOTTA LOVE by Led Zeppelin
72. LOVE WILL KEEP US TOGETHER by Captain & Tenille
73. SAVE THE BEST FOR LAST by Vanessa Williams
74. I FEEL FOR YOU by Chaka Khan
75. BABY I LOVE YOUR WAY by Peter Frampton
76. LOVE TO LOVE YOU BABY by Donna Summer
77. ALL CRIED OUT by Lisa Lisa & Cult Jam
78. I'LL BE by Edwin McCain
79. SWEET CHILD O’MINE by Guns N' Roses

80. ISLANDS IN THE STREAM by Kenny Rogers & Dolly Parton
81. TOTAL ECLIPSE OF THE HEART by Bonnie Tyler
82. WICKED GAME by Chris Isaak
83. I'LL MAKE LOVE TO YOU by Boyz II Men
84. TIME AFTER TIME by Cindy Lauper
85. CARELESS WHISPER by Wham
86. SECRET GARDEN by Bruce Springsteen
87. IS THIS LOVE by White Snake
88. THANK YOU by Dido
89. I WANT YOU TO WANT ME by Cheap Trick

90. BACK AT ONE by Brian McKnight
91. ALISON by Elvis Costello
92. ALL OUT OF LOVE by Air Supply
93. WE BELONG by Pat Benatar
94. THIS I PROMISE YOU by N'Sync
95. IT MUST HAVE BEEN LOVE by Roxette
96. I JUST WANT TO BE YOUR EVERYTHING by Andy Gibb
97. THINK OF LAURA by Christopher Cross
98. I NEED LOVE by LL Cool J
99. HERO by Enrique Iglesias

100. EVERY ROSE HAS ITS THORN by Poison
101. I CAN LOVE YOU LIKE THAT by John Michael Montgomery
102. LOVE OF MY LIFE by Sammy Kershaw
103. JUST THE TWO OF US by Grover Washington, Jr.
104. AS LONG AS I LIVE by John Michael Montgomery
105. SHE IS MORE by Andy Griggs
106. I SWEAR by John Michael Montgomery
107. MY EVERYTHING by 98 degrees
108. LOVE IS ALL AROUND by Wet Wet Wet
109. YOU ARE STILL THE ONE by Shania Twain
110. I ONLY HAVE EYES FOR YOU by Jamie Cullum
111. OVERJOYED by Stevie Wonder

Love Messages

Love messages convey your feelings in a sweet, heartfelt, or playful manner. Here are some very touching love messages:

I love my life beacuse it gave me you, I love you because you are my life.

A candle may melt and its fire may die, but the love you have given me will always stay as a flame in my heart.

A kiss is as drinking salty water: you drink and your thirst will increase.

If 10 people care 4 u, one of them is me, if 1 person cares 4 u that would be me again, if no 1 cares 4 u that means i m not in this world.

Feelings are many but words are few, clouds are dark but sky is blue; Luv is a paper, life is glue, every thing is false, only My Luv is true.

Another month, another year, another smile, another tear, another winter, another summer too, never want to spend any of them without you.

Love is life. And if you miss love, you miss life.

Kiss me and u will see stars; Love me and I will give them to u.

You are like the sunshine so warm, you are like sugar, so sweet...you are like you...and that's the reason why I love you!

If kisses were the water I would give you the sea, if hugs were the leaves I would give you a tree, but if love was time, I would give you eternity.

Before I met you I never knew what it was like; to look at someone and smile for no reason.

Meeting you was fate, becoming your friend was a choice but falling in love with you I had no control over.

You can never stop loving someone, u just learn to live without them.

It's been said that you only truly fall in love once, but I don't believe it. Every time I see you, I fall in love all over again

If you can spend an hour in my mind, a minute in my heart, a second in my soul, you'll know how much love I have for you.

There are 12 months a year...30 days a month...7 days a week...24 hours a day...60 minutes an hour...but only one like you in a lifetime.

What is love? It is what makes your cell phone ring every time I send text messages.

I used to think that dreams do not come true, but this quickly changed the moment I laid my eyes on you.

If, out of time, I could pick one moment and keep it shining, always new, of all the days that I have lived, I'd pick the moment I met you.

There's a love that only you can give, a smile that only your lips can show, a twinkle that can only be seen in your eyes, and a life of mine that you alone can complete.

There are 4 steps to happiness: 1. you, 2. me, 3. our hearts, 4. together!

If love can be avoided simply by closing our eyes, I wouldn't blink at all for I don't want to let a second pass having fallen out of love with you.

If you were a wound inside my heart, I'd rather leave it there with all the pain locked inside than leave it without a trace of you.

Can I say I love you today? If not, can I ask you again tomorrow? And the day after tomorrow? And the day after that? Coz I'll be loving you every single day of my life.

If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day so I never have to live without you.

In true love the smallest distance is too great, and the greatest distance can be bridged.

There is no remedy for love but to love more.

Is it Love or Obsession?

So you've found someone and things are heating up. In fact, you're starting to worry that you might be getting too fixated on your paramour. You felt an instant attraction, rushed into a relationship, and now feel constantly anxious and jealous. Is what you feel love or obsession? Read on to find out the difference.

Like an addiction, an obsessive person can become instantly hooked on another person. They may latch onto another person as soon as they meet them. Once they've found their object of obsession, they will rush into the relationship, without stopping to think whether or not they are compatible with the other person. An obsessive person may simply fixate on the physical appearance of their chosen partner, without paying any attention to their personality. They may put that person up on a pedestal or endow them with godlike, unreal qualities. This is the phase during which obsessive, controlling behavior begins.

During the second phase of an obsession, a commitment has usually been agreed upon by the two people involved. But some obsessed people enter this phase even without a commitment. They lull themselves into an illusion of intimacy, regardless of what the other person feels.

The obsessed person will begin to have delusions that their partner is cheating, even though there is no factual basis for them to do so. They will begin to demand that their partners share their daily schedule with them. They will call constantly to check up on their partner. They will monitor their emails or suddenly show up at their partner's office. Obsessive people are afraid of abandonment. Again, this will not have any factual basis, but they will always be afraid that their partner will leave them for someone else.

By this point the relationship begins to become unhealthy. It will become the sole focus of the obsessed person. Fortunately, this is also the period where the object of the obsession will be alerted to their partner's obsession. They will feel controlled, thus causing them to draw back from the obsessed person. This will lead to the breakup of the relationship.

The obsessed person will have tunnel vision about their partner. They will not be able to stop thinking about them and they will devote all their attention to their partner. They will call their partner continually, wherever they happen to be. They will start driving by their partner’s home or office just to check up on them. They will barrage their partners with allegations of cheating. They may even try to implant a physical or electronic monitoring device on their partner, so that they can keep track of them at all times.

They will start to guilt trip their partner and to demand more of their attention.

During the final phase of an obsessive relationship, the obsessed partner will feel constantly depressed. They will also feel angry, and if their partner has broken up with them, they will be out to get revenge. They will blame themselves and also hate themselves. However, even if the relationship has ended, they will deny this. They may start using drugs, or indulging in alcohol, food or sex to make the pain go away.

If you are in a relationship and your partner has exhibited some of the above behavior, get out of the relationship as fast as you can. It's not love. It's obsession.

Love and Jealousy

Love and Jealousy: Understanding the Emotional Dynamics

Jealousy has long been viewed as an emotion that safeguards love. There are people who believe that the presence of jealousy in a relationship is an evidence of how much they care for someone, and how much they are cared for in return. However, this is also one of the primary factors why some relationships fail.

While the jealous party may blame the other person for giving them a reason to feel suspicious, in reality it is more often a reflection of one’s personal issues. The tendency for an individual to become jealous actually depends not only on the situation. It varies from person to person, with those who have a naturally insecure personality falling prey on it more frequently.

Jealousy can manifest itself in several ways. Some of the classic reasons why people experience this crippling emotion are as follows:

Fear of losing loved one

Loving someone and being loved in return is such a heartwarming experience that perhaps nobody would be willing to lose or give it up easily. If the stability of the relationship is threatened in any way, jealous responses may arise. This is often propelled by the fear of losing the person that one cares for the most.

Lack of trust

Jealousy is basically an issue of trust. A loving relationship that is built on trust and openness is less likely to suffer from issues of jealousy, compared to a relationship in which the partners keep things from each other. However, lack of trust does not only result from infidelity and other behaviors that warrant doubt and suspicion. Sometimes, even though the other person is perfectly faithful, there are individuals who find it hard to give their trust completely.

Unwillingness to share attention

It feels good to be the apple of someone's eye. If there are signs that somebody else is commanding a beloved's attention - whether this is real or just imagined - anger and jealousy will ultimately arise.

Desire to control loved one

Love is generally a positive feeling but it can sometimes evolve into unhealthy responses if approached in a wrong way. In certain cases, there is a need to always have one's way in the relationship. Jealousy may be used as a means to control and make a partner conform to the individual's wants.

Excessive feelings of jealousy may often interfere with a person's rational thinking. This compels some individuals to do things that could actually drive away the partner that they are desperately trying to keep. Although experts agree that this emotion is a natural survival mechanism that aims to preserve a relationship, jealousy is in fact a very destructive feeling. The only chance that this emotion may serve a constructive purpose is if the person suffering from it would recognize this as a sign to look within the self and work on their negative feelings.

Although experts haven't reached a general consensus whether jealousy has a purpose in a loving relationship, the only certain thing is that its presence would always prove problematic if left uncontrolled and dominant.